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Sunday 22 April 2012

Trip advisor's top twenty


I'm working my way down the list of top 20 restaurants in Hanoi on the trip advisor website (http://www.tripadvisor.com/Restaurants-g293924-Hanoi.html). In general this is a great website to find reviews for any country as so many people use it. On Friday night it was Madame Hien, although actually I think this is now no. 29, where I ate in the beautiful courtyard, which was very atmospheric. The only problem was that there were lots of tourists and this definitely meant the prices were higher than normal Vietnamese restaurants. I ate this amazing duck with delicious mushrooms followed by coffee and caramel ice cream. The only slight hitch was when they lost the bill, which is actually fairly common (maybe just to me, I'm not sure)…
Picture taken from the Trip Advisor website.

Friday 20 April 2012

Sapa Round 2

After describing the length of the hike, the burning muscles and the sun beating down on my neck to the rest of my family they decided that it was a great idea to take the weekend train down to Sapa AGAIN!
This time though we brought along a tour guide and I learnt a lot about death and marriage rituals. Warning: The information on death is truly shocking!

Note - The pictures are completely unrelated but I love them anyway.
The most important things for a man in Sapa are:

  1. A House
  2. A Wife
  3. A Buffalo

I predict that in the first world people would more likely say:
  1.  A house
  2.  A bank account full of money
  3.  A car/ ipod/ television or another consumerist item.

COURTING:

There is a dancing and singing ritual where the men dance to music and the women sing in response, the couple get closer to one another until they can see each other's faces. If they like what they see then they carry on going for one hour (if not then the music dramatically stops and one partner runs away, which I suppose is very unfortunate if you're very ugly). After one hour they escape to the mountains to talk till the early hours about their lives, hopes dreams etc. and agree to meet again 3 times.


I own no rights to this adorable baby - I'm only 15

 Once they have met three times the man will describe the woman to his family and they must go and kidnap her from the market and keep her in his house for three days. This sounds rather unnecessary to me but maybe it adds a little adventure into their lives? If she chooses to stay with the husband's family for three days then one month later the couple will marry. So if you're like me and can't dance to save your life you would have no hope of finding a partner.





DEATH:

The dead are taken to a fortune teller who bathes them in spiritual water and leaves collected from high up in the mountains. Then the body is suspended from the ceiling of the  family's house and lowered each day according to how old they were. So if you're 80 you hang 8 days, being lowered by 10cm each day.
Once the body reaches the floor the strongest men in the village must run with the body down a long and winding path so the spirit will not remember the way home as the family doesn't want to be haunted.
What is most interesting is that this tradition is the opposite in the rest of Vietnam where people want their dead relative watching over them.


Snake guts really do look appetizing don't they?


Wednesday 4 April 2012

The sky isn't the limit?

The world's tallest building is currently the Burj Kalifah situated in Dubai which cost a whopping 1.5 billion dollars to build. In the lifts your ears are popping from the amount of pressure change and there are futuristic space style disco lights. Once you reach the 124 floor's observation deck then you have amazing views across the country.

There are some really interesting design features such as the silver tinted windows, giving a beautiful reflection of the bright sun, but also keeping the building cool.



It takes 3-4 months to clean all the windows with track lines, a series of ropes and for the spire: men hand cleaning! Just like in Vietnam really.

What's even more shocking is that there may be an even taller construction in Saudi Arabia, adding just over 100m and breaking world records. It seems like the sky simply isn't the limit.

Here's a link for more information:
http://www.smartplanet.com/photos/plans-revealed-for-new-tallest-building-in-the-world-photos/6271252?tag=thumbnail-view-selector;get-photo-roto


I don't think there's any building in Hanoi as amazing as this one!

Sunday 1 April 2012

Culture shock again?

There is such a thing as 'reverse culture shock', never before had I encountered this term until I faced it head on during my break. I took a trip to the Middle East (well just Dubai, Abu Dhabi and Bahrain), where camels roam freely and the landscape consists of many thousands of grains of sand. I felt out of place not wearing the traditional long black burka like all the other women and unlike Hanoi there didn't really seem to be any well; culture.

In years gone by the Middle East was a haven of different foods, traditions and differences to the Western world. Now I fear it may have fallen to the conformity of shopping malls, designer labels and fancy cars (and boy do they drive fast). Their driving makes Hanoi look tame.

I still really enjoyed my trip and here are some pictures I took along the way; I went out in search of mosques...

Yum, olives in chocolate, now that does sound great.


This was actually the ceiling of the shopping centre, but I thought the tiling was spectacular and no one was making an effort to look up!




Well this sign was a little bit of a joke.

Apparently the gold souks used to be out on the streets but now they are mostly all inside. The jewellery was such a radiant yellow shade I couldn't believe it was actually real.